Children react in different ways to bullying which is why there is no set solution that can be applied in every case, as there can be many factors involved. This isn’t to say that we’re powerless when contending with bullying. Simply understanding the traits and signals associated with bullying can help us intervene sooner rather than later, and give children the assurance that they’re not alone and that the matter is being dealt with in the right way.
The following is an overview of some of the signs and signals that some victims of bullying can show.
- Listen to Your Child Without Becoming Angry
Knowing our child is being harmed can make us angry, and it’s completely understandable. It’s important that we can reserve our own feelings and allow our children to tell us exactly what has happened. Not only does this show the child that you are there for them, but it also allows you to get all the facts.
- Tell Your Child They’ve Done Nothing Wrong
There can be many reasons as to why other children decide to bully, and it’s not always because they have sinister motives. However, it’s easy for your child to assume they’re the one at fault. Reassure your child this isn’t the case.
- Tell Your Child to Walk Away
When being bullied, it’s not unusual for some children to face up to the bully, thinking it will be enough to dissuade them. Bullies are often looking for a reaction, so advising your child to ignore them and walk the other way can mean that the bully isn’t getting the response they’re looking for.
- Work with The School
If bullying occurs during school time, it can be easy to assume that the school is at fault. The fact of the matter is that schools can only deal with bullying if they know it is happening. As such, you should make an appointment with the school to discuss the matter to see what contingencies can be put in place. Many will find that once the bullying has been identified and the child has been spoken to, the bullying stops.
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